129 Ways to Get a Husband #3: Attend Night School - Take Courses Men Like

I signed up for acting class. Why?  To improve my memory.  Well, that's only partially true.  I did it because I love acting. It's fun. What's there not to like being in the moment and reacting? 

Listening skills.  It also improves that.  So my reasons are tri-fold.  I didn't do it to get a man because I had one and I will say this about taking a class, he didn't like it.

"Why?" I questioned.
"The other students will like you," he confirmed. 
"But they're young enough to be my offspring." 
"Alright then, the teacher will like you." 

So I figure either way it's a good thing for a gal to take classes.  Either you'll find a husband (depending on your age) or your guy bumps up his game in fear of losing you.

And, maybe you'll learn a thing or two.

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